My husband introduced me to this phrase. His step-father (that’s him to the left) used to tell him, “Do something, even if it’s wrong.” And that confounded him as a kid.
As ridiculous as it might seem at first (of course, you shouldn’t do horrible mean things just for the sake of doing them–that would make you an awful human being), the advice has a sort of sage-like brilliance.
Most of us come to discover, over a lifetime of trial and error, that you can’t wait for the stars to align perfectly to pursue your goals. If you ever actually want to reach those goals, you need to take matters into your own hands. And maybe your hands are messy. Or too full. Or you feel like you have no clue what you’re doing. Or sometimes you even wonder what’s the point anyway…
But the goal keeps coming back. It lingers, prodding you with unsuspected nudges, until finally you relent. “Okay, fine. I’ll just do something already!”
Case in point…
How many of you parents out there can relate to this terrible, horrible, so good, very awesome day? Continue reading
I may be reserved and nice, but I’m also surprisingly stubborn. As in, so stubborn that my husband once joked I could have a C-section without anesthetics, if I got it in my head to do so.
Stubborn plus parenting doesn’t always mix, let me tell ya.
It’s been a bumpy road, but I’m slowing learning the art of knowing when to give up—and that it’s not always a bad thing.
Case in point…
For those of you who’ve been following my escapades for a while now (if so—thank you!), you know that my daughter’s Halloween costumes have been kind of a big deal.
It started when Szaba was a mere four months old. My mother-in-law, Sue, was coming to visit. Her cancer had taken a turn for the worse, and I wanted something to cheer us both up. So I asked Sue to come up with Szaba’s costume.
I only had one rule: something aspirational, no princess girly nonsense.
Sue came through in spades with an incredible Amelia Earhart costume.
There was only one problem. Continue reading
Did you know that one in eight women will battle breast cancer?
I’d venture to say that every person reading this has had their life touched by it. I’ve lost a grandma to it, a mother-in-law, and this year, nearly a friend.
Isn’t it time we took down this killer for good?
Your life—or your sister’s, daughter’s, friend’s, or mom’s—depends on it.
Here are 3 things you can do TODAY to fight breast cancer.
Exceptional, wonderful, inspired YOU.
It’s something we used to do as kids as second nature.
But it’s not until you’re parent that you remember how much you may have lost.
How do you prioritize between outside needs and internal inspiration?
Well, to start with, you need to get back to the basics of the word need.
For instance for the past three years, on top of my monetary and motherly contributions to my family, I felt I needed to blog 2-3 times a week, all for a possible audience of future books.
The one problem with that?