It’s my birthday, and I’ll do what I want to. Therefore, I’d like to personally recognize a few special moments I hold in my heart, all of which are far greater than any gift I could receive today or tomorrow.
These are a few of my favorite things—36 for my 36 years. What would yours be?
- Watching the fireworks from my hospital room when Szaba was born.
- Ryan’s expression as he stepped toward me on our wedding day.
- The weight of Pavlov in my cupped hands at the Oklahoma City airport.
- Watching fishing families leisurely stroll the beach at sunset from the boardwalk bar of the Tubkaak in Krabi, Thailand.
- Adventuring through the fields behind Grandma’s house with my sister.
- Witnessing autumn dump buckets of paint on the mountainside of Denali.
- Spending time in my dad’s science lab after school.
- Seeing my own amazement mirrored in Sue’s face at Casa Batllo.
- The emotional pictures in the words of Virginia Woolf and D.H. Lawrence.
- My mom’s storytime felt boards.
- Witnessing Jeff Tweedy crone, within reach, in the blue smoke of Lounge Ax, Chicago.
- Homemade paella al fresco on a Mallorcan farm on the eve of Roger and Katrin’s wedding.
- Surprising our friends with armloads of cheeseburgers after Margo and Jay’s wedding.
- Learning history from Shirley over a glass of Riesling.
- Watching a quartet hauntingly traverse a dark lake at the bottom of a cave on the Spanish isle of Mallorca.
- Finding my little sister hiding in my luggage when I was packing for college.
- College.
- Hearing “Wish You Were Here” for the first time.
- Snorkeling and boat picnicing off the coast of Bali.
- The immersive fantasy of the Salvador Dali museum.
- Manhattans in Manhattan; Singapore slings in Singapore; margaritas on Isla Margarite.
- My first glimpse of Seattle from the plane the day that I moved here.
- The necklace Sue gave me and what she said.
- The satisfaction of sanding all the wood floors of our house (though I would never do it again).
- The beating heart of Hong Kong.
- Seeing Cindy Sherman’s art in person.
- Good times and deep conversations over stiff margaritas at Cesar’s, Chicago.
- The prehistoric Hall of Mosses hike in Olympic National Park.
- Our girls’ week of musicals in London.
- Some of the happiest of happy hours at Las Casas de la Juderia, Seville.
- Tango dancing.
- Meeting my sisters’ daughters for the first time.
- Raising close friends with one of my best friends.
- Having the means and ability to write every day and be my own boss.
- Starting each day with the joie de vivre in my daughter’s eyes.
- Discovering new things about the world, my loved ones, and myself for 36 years and counting.
What’s your list?